The Co-Parenting Preparation Toolkit

Everything you need to walk into co-parent conversations, clinic consults, and attorney meetings prepared, instead of paying professionals by the hour to teach you the basics.

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What's inside

  • Co-Parenting Agreement Template (24 sections): an educational draft covering custody, money, decision-making, relocation, dispute resolution, and embryo disposition. Built to bring to your attorney so drafting starts at alignment, not from zero.
  • The 200-Questions Co-Parent Workbook: every question that matters, organized into the five domains that predict conflict, with deal-breaker flags and space for both parties' answers.
  • Fertility Clinic Interview Script: the 25 questions to ask any clinic, including the pricing and known-donor policy questions clinics don't volunteer.
  • Family-Law Attorney Interview Script: how to find, vet, and brief a fertility-competent attorney, plus the 15 questions that reveal whether they've actually handled elective co-parenting.
  • Legal Red-Flag Checklist: the warning signs in people, promises, and paperwork, in printable checklist form.
  • Cost-Planning Spreadsheet: every line item from search to first birthday, pre-loaded with typical ranges and a who-pays column.

$49 one-time · PDF + spreadsheet · instant download

Buy the toolkit: $49

Who this is for

You're seriously considering platonic co-parenting or a known-donor arrangement, and you've realized the stakes: this is a 18+ year partnership with another adult, formed without the legal defaults marriage provides. The professionals who help (fertility attorneys at $300–$500/hour, mediators, counselors) are worth every dollar once you're aligned. The toolkit exists so you do the alignment work yourself first, and spend professional hours on professional problems.

What this is not

The agreement template is an educational document, not a legal instrument. It will not be valid in your state as-is, and we say so on every page of it. Its job is to make sure that when you sit down with a licensed family-law attorney, you've already thought through all 24 sections, which typically cuts drafting time (and your bill) substantially. Anyone selling you a "legally binding co-parenting agreement" as a download without attorney review is, frankly, one of the red flags in our checklist.

Common questions

Is this a substitute for a lawyer?

No, and it's not trying to be. It's the preparation that makes your lawyer dramatically more effective and less expensive. Both intended co-parents should still each retain independent counsel before signing anything.

What format are the files?

PDFs (fillable where useful) plus a spreadsheet in .xlsx format. Everything works offline; nothing requires an account.

Does it cover known-donor arrangements too?

Yes. The workbook and red-flag checklist cover both paths, and the template includes an appendix on how donor arrangements differ, because mixing up donor and co-parent frameworks is the single most common legal mistake in this space.

What if it's not useful to me?

Refunds are handled through the checkout platform's standard policy. See the checkout page for terms.